I’m married but still date other women

A COUPLE have opened up on being happily married whilst dating other women. 

When Zee and Karie met on Tinder in 2020, sparks instantly flew, and it wasn’t long before they made things official. 

But now, the content creators have discussed their open relationship in more depth, as they are on the hunt for a third, or potentially even fourth member. 

On a recent episode of Love Don’t Judge, the couple shared all on their polyamorous relationship, which involves having multiple romantic partners simultaneously, with the full knowledge, consent and communication of everyone involved. 

Talking about the arrangement, Zee said: “The relationship progressed so naturally and then all the trust that was built with the relationship brought us to our poly lifestyle. 

“We keep our interest mutual to save the overall security of the poly dynamic – we date other women together but that doesn’t mean we don’t love each other.

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“One rule that we have for certain is we do not give out our [phone] numbers for individual conversations. We like to show up as the package that we are.”

Meanwhile Karie chimed in: “Being polyamous is not easy. It’s something that takes time to build and perfect. 

“We only want to deal with women who choose to deal with us, because we are together.”

But the couple’s relationship choices means their love is often subject to harsh criticism. 

As well as being labelled as “disgusting,” Zee recognised: “People think we’re crazy for wanting more than one woman. 

“We get judged for being poly, being lesbian. A lot of people think that we’re crazy, they think we are so selfish for having our cake and eating everybody else’s too.

“It’s funny that a lot of people think we are abominations and disappointments to the male race for choosing to be with a woman and choosing to pursue other women.” 

However, the couple aren’t bothered by what trolls say, as Karie continued: “We bond over this, we laugh over it – it’s not something that really affects us.”

When it comes to the future for the couple, Karie explained: “We want to live in a home full of our women – we don’t care necessarily what that number would be – whether it is a triad or we are in a quad.”

Following this, Nee recognised: “We wanna build a village.” 

Big divide

But YouTube users were left totally divided by the couple’s open relationship and many rushed to the comments to share their thoughts. 

One person said: “Why are they dating other people when they are married? What’s the point of getting married?”

This is definitely a fad. They won’t make it past 30 or 35 together

YouTube user

Another added: “Never got why you would stray from your partner. There’s no need to have multiple partners if you’re married or dating. That’s kinda nasty.”

A third commented: “They are gonna get older and hate all the time they wasted during their youth on this nonsense. This is definitely a fad. They won’t make it past 30 or 35 together.” 

But at the same time, others were complimentary of the women, as one user beamed: “They’re so free spirited and free from the constraints of society. I love them.”

A second chimed in: “I love their story, do what you want to! Don’t let no one judge you!”

Meanwhile, someone else gushed: “I love this for them. They look very happy and content. Wishing them all the happiness in the world.”

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